August 12, 1920 – August 11, 1984
very windy and beautiful day in Bahrain
Hello Jazzlovers,
I have moved to a new place and taking my time getting it just right, because this is my last move..I am lightening my load and getting rid of a lot of things both physical and mental..This will be my home....
I have clothes I have had since I was a teenager and I do pull them out and still wear them but it is time to let go....emotionally I am down to carry on luggage and plan to do the same with my house....I had 5 complete sets of dishes and still finding complete sets of silver wear ( Yes sughah real silver) Not counting the stainless.....and complete sets of crystal still in the original boxes! Just tooooo much!
I read the story titled "The Blue Willow Plate when I was about 6 years old and just fell in love with blue willow pattern, so that was my first set of dishes and the only thing I packed when my marrage broke up along with my child on the back seat of my old Carvair and got the hell out of my home town...Like many things in life I have now disposed of those dishes a couple of days ago and now iam down to 2 sets of dishes one very nice of hand painted fine china for everday and of course my "Royal Dalton"(shades of Mrs. Bucket, Keeping up Apperences) and it feels good...I have really gotten rid of all the emotional baggage of ramifications of thing pass and can look back with a smile of innocence still in my heart...now I am gettin rid of things that remind me of percived sad times.....It feels good...
Which brings me to Percy Mayfield, (as I said I now look back with clear eyes) my innocence was taken away from me when I was 6 years old and I relived the ramafications of that for years until I remembered that I really did not remember the incident at all only the things that happened after, as my whole life changed that day...everyone involved is now gone so why hold on to it? so I have let it go..But the major thing that followed me from that day was the lost of trust! Trust issues are still very important to me until today and I am a very trust worthy person because of that incident yet it has invaded every relationship I have ever had! If I lose trust in someone it is over Thank you Mam!!!Nothing left to say....
Now in 1952 I had become a very lonley child and spent hours alone by choice trying to understand this world, my mother played music all the time and one day this song penertrated my brain..and in someway became my theme song, it is still my favorite song and I do have favorite artist versions but the original still moves me to tears...on that day in 1952 I heard Percy Mayfield do "Please Send Me Someone to Love", My Mother played this song over and over and over, I did not complain because you see I understood the song even at that early age..( I am listening to it now?And Now that I understand my Mothers life better I also know what it was to her..( My mother wrote me a letter 7 March 1983, and she died November 1983, I got the letter 7 March 1984) she had never stopped loving my father....Please send me someone to love was released in 1950 but I think it took 2 years to get back to Louisiana...or to get my attention..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PoZlcq9eL1k
Percy Mayfield was born in Minden, the seat of Webster Parish in northwestern Louisiana. As a youth, he showed a talent for poetry and this led him into songwriting and singing. He began his performing career in Texas and then moved to Los Angeles, California by 1942 where success as a singer continued to elude him. Finally in 1947 a small record label, Swing Time, signed him to record his song "Two Years of Torture". The song sold steadily over the next few years, prompting Art Rupe to sign Mayfield to his label, Specialty Records in 1950.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CUqX9oK8_ZY&NR=1
Although his vocal style was influenced by such stylists as Charles Brown, Percy Mayfield did not focus on the white market as did many West Coast bluesmen. Rather, he sang blues ballads, mostly his own songs, in a gentle vocal style. His most famous recording, "Please Send Me Someone to Love", a number one R&B hit single in 1950, was widely influential and recorded by many other singers. The song is a brilliant combination of sensitivity to wider issues of conflict in the world and the very personal need for love.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FpAY7z3uL-c
I trully love this man always have he has always knew how I felt...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kvxjiue3zW4&feature=related
Gladys Knight and BB King does a good job too I am so happy this song has stood the test of time, I am going to add a couple of other versions Jazzlovers please enjoy....
BB King Gladys Knight...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jot9br3ea60
One of my Most fav.. Versions Sade..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u7qFmvQp_MA&feature=related
The Great Miss Nancy Wilson.....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B6_1P3zDM_w
Marlena Shaw and Ernestine Anderson also do a very good job with the song although I can not find it on You Tube yet, I anyone has it please send it to me.. I have the CD's but have not learned to upload them yet...
The Moonglows.....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pXHvq168mXY
The reason I am talking about love here and the past is I think most of us really desire to be loved for ourselfves and that is my point, I realize now I had to take the time to really love me! Which ment I had to strip away the layers of baggage and walls I used to proctect myself and get to myself and love that person underneath unconditionally before I could let someone in...I have done that and it the Universe sees fit to send that love!!! Sughah I am ready!!!
Until next time JazzLovers,
Keep the beat.
DW Jazzlover..
Check this one out Jazzlovers
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Happy to see you back online D.
ReplyDeleteHow do you strip that emotional baggage, I may need lessons, just kidding brother. I am so glad you are well and happy, hope to hear from you one day soon.
Alan
Hi Alan, I was just thinking of you, and as soon as a few more boxes are unpacked and the paint is dry, I plan a long email, I miss you too.
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Cuz, You certainly encourage my personal growth with your writings....thank you. Now on to my personal admittance of being a pack rat of sorts...hummmmmm..now where do I begin? I wish you much happiness in your new abode...I am anxious to see more pictures as you progress. Only God knows why we are back in each others lives...at this moment in time..but I am so happy that we are...you promote peaceful spirit. Thank You.
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Hey, Jazzlover, thank you so much for this post. I recently moved myself and would love to say this will be my last move, but I fear it will not.
ReplyDeleteI have been thinking of doing the same exact thing: purging my wares! I have so much junk (it's nice junk, though, lol). I got rid of a lot a few years back but just went out and bought more :( I, too, am tired of carrying this load and like you intimate, it also represents an emotional load, too. There is a connection between our homes and our emotional selves, like Corey found out over on his blog, illkeepyouposted. Your post and his are really helping to shape me up this year. Thanks!!
We are all in this together Thomas,I am on my way over to read Corey now.
ReplyDeleteHang in there Dear brother, everything is going to be fine.
Really nice post! I always learn something new when I read your blog.
ReplyDeleteAre you guys in Dubai yet?
Tc, Nia B
Hi Nai B, Thank you and Kalid is there now at the same hotel and I wll be there on Sunday.
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